What Montessori Really Looks Like
I’m frequently asked these kinds of questions: Do children really do well in Montessori? What kinds of traits does a Montessori child develop? Is Montessori really a better way to learn?
I decided to ask for input, and posted this question on Facebook: “Parents, can you share some positive results you’ve seen in your child from being in Montessori?”
The answers were amazing!
Within minutes, people were chiming in to share the myriad of ways that Montessori has impacted their children. Here’s a sampling of the responses:
“I was so impressed with the improvement of my then four-year-old son that I became a Montessori teacher myself! Montessori helps the child to focus, develop gross/fine motor skills, and teaches them to think for themselves. It changed my life.”
“Where to begin? Well, for starters, my oldest has consistently been at the top of her class since first grade. She has a sense of self-assurance and maturity that other children her age lack. She is a critical thinker and has a keen interest in the world around her.”
“Hello! I am from Mexico. I have gone to a Montessori preschool myself and my two sons did as well. I think the most important thing about Montessori is that it gives children a very strong sense of self. I found my children to be self motivated, independent, secure, and able to adapt to any situation, because they are open to learning.”
“My son has wonderful social skills and introduces himself to others and asks their names. Also, he has endless questions on everything and his curiosity seems boundless. Montessori has continued to feed this natural curiosity by giving him the tools to ask questions and keep asking.”
“My daughter just finished her first year of traditional 6th grade (middle school) after being in Montessori since she started school. Montessori taught her that learning is her responsibility. She knows how to research a subject on her own and how to work in groups. If she has difficulty she finds a new way to look at the subject so she understands it. Montessori taught her how to learn, not just memorize facts.”
The Characteristics of Montessori
As I looked over the replies, I found that many of these “characteristics of a Montessori child” were mentioned more than once and some many times:
- independent thinking/independence
- self-assured/self-confident
- mature
- critical thinker
- early reader/good reader/enjoys reading
- develops fine-motor skills
- self-motivated
- respectful of others
- knows how to learn/loves learning
- creative
In the Montessori training, teachers are taught to look for certain traits in their students as the result of Montessori; these are known as “characteristics of an authentic Montessori experience”. They are:
- independence
- confidence
- self-discipline
- intrinsic motivation
- ability to handle external authority
- academic achievement
- spiritual awareness [respect for others and for nature]
- responsible citizenship
A comparison of the two lists shows that the Montessori method does just what it says it will do!
Looking for Data
For many people, the observations of parents and teachers aren’t enough. They want hard data to prove that Montessori works.
There have been few studies done, sadly, tracking the outcomes of Montessori children in comparison to children in traditional education. This study in Milwaukee, Do Montessori Schools Have an Edge?, is often cited although some researchers feel the study size was too small. The study did find that Montessori students outscore traditional school children in math, language, and social skills.
Also helpful is research done in the scientific arena, especially that of Dr. Steve Hughes, a Montessori parent and pediatric neuropsychologist. Dr. Hughes has done extensive research on cognitive development, and he has concluded that the Montessori method is perfectly designed to fit the way our brains process information.
It’s clear that more research needs to be done, but so far, the conclusions mirror what we see happening every day in our homes and classrooms.
Seeing the Results
There are many ways to quantify the effects of the Montessori method, and they all have value. The scientific studies give validity to our observations, and our observations bring life to the scientific studies. Clearly, the Montessori method of education is something special. As one parent said, “If you want to give your child the best gift of his or her life, give them a Montessori education.”
You can read all the responses to my question here.
It was wonderful to read through these parent responses! It is always nice to hear from happy parents of happy children. I get these same questions often when I tell people that I am a Montessori teacher. I even get them from my own family.
I, too, noticed the common thread about social skills, independence, attention and learning. It is too bad that not all parents seem to care about these outcomes, which will prepare their child for all future interactions. Many care only about academics (which, of course, Montessori is very strong in as well).
Many people say to me that they think Montessori puts too much pressure on children or that we focus too much on the social/emotional and not enough on the academics. Anyone who has spent 10 minutes in a classroom knows that these statements are simply untrue. Montessori prepares children for the future in all regards.
Very interesting post, I hope lots of skeptics read it.
Great thoughts, Anna! I also noticed that no one mentioned grades or test scores as important – most Montessori schools don’t do grades, but many do standardized testing, and clearly those scores are not the true picture of a child’s progress or achievements.
I’ve often heard the flip side criticism – that Montessori puts too much emphasis on academic achievement. My guess is that this stems from the children who often read early or understand sophisticated concepts at an early age because of their work with Montessori materials.
But, as we know, that progress is the result of free choice and not because they are pushed to learn.
I’m impressed with everyone’s answers. We do though have to be careful when people argue that there is no structure in Montessori due to free choice. Parents don’t realize that there is free choice within the structure. Children are attracted to what they are cognitively ready for. Nothing is pushed on the child academically or emotionally. Their progress is directed. There is a purpose for every job in the classroom.
One of my first students went to a local private school for an interview. She left school for two hours and came back at lunch time. She came to me and I asked her how she liked the new school and if she wanted to go there. “Miss Jill?” she said so matter-of-factly, “They had all these toys, but you couldn’t learn anything from them…I like it here better.”
I only have positive things to say as a past Montessori student myself and as a teacher, and so do the children without even realizing it.
Great points, Jill! Freedom within structure, that’s Montessori exactly. Your story reminds me of an experiment that one Montessori teacher has done – she put toys in the classroom for a few days and generally the children ignored them and chose the Montessori materials instead.
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Hi Lori.
I cant stop beaming ever since I have read your post.
My now 2 year old toddler and me have been part of the montessori practice ever since my son’s been 11months old. We started off with the Mother-Toddler program at a local montessori school and not only have we decided that Adi should continue with the same academy but I have taken to the format in totality so much so I have quit my 12 years adverstising career so that I can become an active part of this wonderful fraternity.
I cant stop but agree more to your analysis of the Montessori Charecteristics. I am seeing almost all of these traits in my toddler and I’m really glad that we had the opportunity to connect to this format of education for our child.
I really wish and hope that we can help influence many more contemporary parents to begin associating with this format.
Your post was very encoraging and an interesting read.
SuhaelAmrita
So glad to hear it, Suhael! That’s what I was hoping when I wrote it. I love that parents and teachers are able to actually see the growth of these important traits in their students.
Best to you in your pursuit of a Montessori career! It seems like a lot of parents end up becoming Montessori teachers after seeing the positive results in their child.
Hi , I have a toddler who is going to start Kindergarten next year. At the moment I am torn between letting him attend a regular kindergarten or a Montessori based one. Because he is my first , I have been tossing the ideas up and down for a few weeks now, unsure & confused. I want the best education for him , plus he is really smart – can anyone give me some useful info to make my decision easier ?
Thanks
Luisa
Hi, Luisa! The best information I can give you is this post! Hopefully you have time to read through it (and click the link at the bottom of the post to read all the responses – there were a lot).
To learn more about Montessori in general and how it benefits children, here is a great post too: Why Our World Needs Montessori.
When my girls were little, I knew nothing about Montessori other than that the fellow who’d replaced me in London was a Marine and the first thing he looked for was a Montessori school for his daughter, then he looked for a house.
By the time my girls were 5, they could name all the continents and most of the countries on those continents. By the time they were 10, I would have felt comfortable telling them “Here’s the air fare and some spending money; meet me in Amsterdam at X at 6 pm next Tuesday.” Today, the world is their book and they read a new page from it at the drop of a hat. One has lived in Atlanta and London, one in Colorado, San Francisco, and Austin and they’ve both visited more countries than I have with my temporal head start. That confidence is fantastic.
Thank you for sharing, Max! I love hearing about “Montessori kids” and how they turn out after they grow up. It’s great to hear that the traits that were instilled in them early on are still there as adults. Amazing!
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I had difficult time to decide whether i should send my six year old daughter to first grade. She turned 6 in July. She was always youngest in her class. Although she is very good reader. She started reading when she was 4 1/2 years old.When she was in kindergarten she became a good reader because of her Montessori background. She likes to socialize a lot.
I was thinking Is Montessori is too much for her because I don’t want to push her. I want her to enjoy her childhood. According to me it will never come back – she has to do studies when she will grow up. My husband and I were debating on this issue. He wants her to go and I want her to start first grade when she turns 7.
Please advise.
Hi, Suhana! I personally would start her in first grade now. Waiting another year would be very frustrating for a child who is already reading. Then she would be the oldest in her class (by a lot) and risks being bored.
Even when children skip a grade (which your daughter would not be doing if you sent her now) they do fine socially and they do not have negative effects socially. Yes, childhood is fleeting but holding your daughter back would not help. Montessori makes learning fun, not a chore, and children love to learn.
A good Montessori school will not push your daughter – just work with her where she’s at and give her the tools to learn at her own pace.
It’s hard for me to know, since I do not know your daughter or the situation, but as a teacher I had many children whose birthdays were past the cutoff date in September and they did great. It was not a problem.
I’m a fan of asking children what they think, so I suggest presenting the two options to your daughter – starting first grade now or waiting – and getting her opinion also.